SACRAMENT OF BAPTISM
BAPTISM
INFANT BAPTISM
The Rite of Baptism for Children includes these words, "The Christian community welcomes you with great joy." And it is also with great joy that Saint Clement helps parents prepare for the baptism of their baby.
In bringing forward your child for baptism, you seek to make a permanent connection between your child and Christ with the Christian community. No matter how close or distant your own relationship with God, the new life of your child has stirred a desire in you to seek baptism for him or her. In this sacrament, the Christian community promises to walk beside you in nurturing the faith of your child.
Please complete the Baptism Inquiry form and Lori Howard, our Coordinator of Sacramental Prep, will be in touch with any questions and to confirm a day & time for the baptism.
HOW TO PREPARE
WHAT ARE THE REQUIREMENTS FOR BAPTISM?
For a child to be baptized in the Roman Catholic Church, there must be a basis for hope that the child will be raised in the Catholic faith. In practice, this generally means that at least one parent is Catholic. Many dioceses in the United States require parents to participate in some preparation before the baptism of their children; we offer a baptism preparation session here at Saint Clement. Each child brought forward for baptism must also have at least one godparent who is a confirmed, practicing Catholic age 16 or older.
FIRST CHILD TO BE BAPTIZED?
If this is your first time bringing a child forward for baptism, it is a requirement of the Archdiocese of Chicago that both parents participate in one baptism preparation session. Here at Saint Clement, we encourage parents to wait until after the child has been born to participate in the session. The preparation session is usually held once a month via Zoom. Contact lhoward@clement.org to check availability and to register for the session. See our FAQ below for what happens during this preparation session.
If you have already had a child baptized at Saint Clement, you need not attend the preparation session again, unless you would like to.
OPTIONS FOR CELEBRATING THE BAPTISM OF YOUR CHILD
We offer a few options for celebrating this first, most important sacrament.
Most baptisms at Saint Clement are celebrated at 10:30 a.m. every Saturday of the month except the last Saturday. The 10:30 a.m. baptism rite is a beautiful ceremony with up to eight families bringing their children forward to be baptized. The ceremony lasts about 30-45 minutes and is not a full Mass. After a brief Liturgy of the Word and a short homily, the families and all their guests are called to gather around the baptismal font to witness the baptisms of their children.
Another choice is to have your child baptized during one of our regular weekend liturgies. Baptisms may be celebrated during predetermined Masses on Saturdays and Sundays, depending on the liturgical schedule. We invite up to two children to be baptized at a Mass.
Whichever of these options you choose, you must confirm the date of the baptism with the parish before making further plans. Baptism dates do fill up quickly. To check availability, complete the Baptism Inquiry Form via the button above.
WHAT ARE THE REQUIREMENTS FOR GODPARENTS?
We hope that parents choose godparents who will take an active role in the faith formation of their child. The Church requires at least one godparent who is a practicing, confirmed Catholic age 16 or older. That godparent's name is entered into the parish record book as the "official" godparent or sponsor for baptism.
If you choose more than two godparents, one or two may have their names entered into the book as "official" godparents, and the others can be "honorary" godparents. You don't have to tell them which is which. All the godparents' personal relationship to the child and to you as a family is the same whether their names are recorded in the book or not. If you choose two godparents of the same sex, one can be the "official" godparent for the record book, and the other can be the "honorary" one. (Just as above, you don't have to tell anyone which is which except us.)
Baptized non-Catholic Christians may not be "official" godparents for the record book, but they may be Christian witnesses for your child. People who are not baptized Christians cannot be sponsors for baptism, since they themselves are not baptized. However, you may certainly invite non-Christian friends or relatives to attend the celebration and to have a special place in your child's life, sharing with your child their own faith traditions.
HOW CAN I MAKE MY DONATION FOR MY CHILD'S BAPTISM?
No fee is required, but we suggest an offering of at least $100, if that feels right to you. Many parents like to make a “thanksgiving offering” at the time of the child’s baptism. Their generous contributions help fund the preparation program and supplies involved. You may use the envelope enclosed in your baptism packet or make a donation online via the button below.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS!
WHAT AGE ARE CHILDREN USUALLY BAPTIZED?
There is no age limit, but at Saint Clement, infants are generally baptized between three and six months old. We encourage parents to wait until they can experience the joy of this occasion without undue fatigue or stress. We also welcome children age seven or older to baptism. If your child is seven years or older, we welcome you and your child to baptism as well; we offer baptismal preparation designed to meet the needs of older children and their parents. If you would like to have your child over age seven baptized at Saint Clement, please contact the parish at 773-281-0371 or lhoward@clement.org for more information.
DO WE STILL BELIEVE IN LIMBO?
Limbo was an idea proposed centuries ago as an answer to the question of what happens to babies who die before baptism. It was imagined as a kind of pleasant but neutral residence for souls, with neither the torment of hell nor the joy of heaven. Limbo was only an opinion; it is no longer current among theologians. Limbo is not mentioned in the current Catechism of the Catholic Church because the church now prefers not to speculate about those who die unbaptized: the church entrusts them to God’s loving kindness and endless mercy. (Source: Infant Baptism: A Sourcebook for Parishes, Archdiocese of Chicago)
WHAT ABOUT SINGLE PARENTS OR PARENTS WHO WEREN’T MARRIED IN THE CHURCH?
Saint Clement welcomes every parent to bring your child forward for baptism, no matter what your circumstances may be. Parents who were not married in the Roman Catholic Church might consider the possibility of having your marriage convalidated in the church. While it is not necessary for baptizing your child, the parish staff will gladly assist you in that process.
WHEN WILL WE RECEIVE THE BAPTISM CERTIFICATE?
Shortly after the baptism, we will send you one baptism certificate with the parents' names, including the mother's maiden name (as called for by church regulations). If your child ever needs a copy of the baptism certificate later, perhaps for school registration or for marriage, please contact the parish office.
CAN WE HAVE THE BAPTISM CELEBRATED IN ANOTHER CHURCH BUT DO THE PREPARATION HERE?
That can certainly be done; it just calls for a little simple paperwork, primarily from the parish office. Be sure to check with the other parish for their requirements, and let us know the other parish's mailing address so we can send the official letter (it states that you have participated in preparation and we offer jurisdiction for the baptism to be celebrated elsewhere). Please let us know the baby's name, gender, date of birth, and date of baptism, so we can add it to your family's records here at Saint Clement Church.
WHAT HAPPENS DURING THE PREPARATION SESSIONS?
We invite both parents and baby to attend the online session. The sessions are designed to help you reflect spiritually on being new parents and how this great change has affected your own relationship with God. We also reflect together on the faith you desire for your child. We will discuss the theology of the sacrament of baptism, as well as practical aspects of the ceremony itself.
WHAT SHOULD THE BABY WEAR FOR THE BAPTISM?
A white garment is an ancient sign of the newly baptized Christian's new life in Christ. Your child's baptismal garment need not be a traditional baptismal or christening gown; it can be any clothing that is mainly white. (Regular department stores such as Macy's and Kohl's sell traditional baptismal gowns.) If the child will be baptized by infusion, that is, by pouring water from the font over the baby's head, the child wears the white garment throughout the service.
WHY DOESN’T SAINT CLEMENT BAPTIZE BABIES DURING LENT?
We choose to fast from infant baptism during Lent as a way for the entire parish to live in solidarity with the adults who are preparing to be baptized at the Easter Vigil. Lent is a special time for adults who are preparing for baptism – it is called the Period of Purification and Enlightenment. By not celebrating any other baptisms during Lent, we wait in eager anticipation with them for the new life of the baptismal waters.
I AM TO BE A GODPARENT TO A CHILD BAPTIZED AT ANOTHER CHURCH, WHAT DO I NEED?
How wonderful for you to accept this honor to be a godparent. Congratulations! The other parish will require a Letter of Good Standing. Provided that you are a registered parishioner at Saint Clement, please email lhoward@clement.org with this request. Be sure to include 1) your full name, 2) the child’s full name that will be baptized, 3) the child’s parents’ full names, 4) the date of the baptism, and 5) the name of the church, address, contact, and email address for that person.
ADULT BAPTISM
Baptism for Adults is done through our OCIA program. We encourage you to prayerfully consider joining!